Advices comes in all kinds of shapes and words. To rule the world with one single universal advice to everyone would be fatal as everyone’s perks and quirks are different. In simple saying: One man’s meat is another man’s poison. T
Some advices motivates and gives you the strength to go on but some just gives you a false impression on your doings and misleads you. The dilemma with life is you will never know which is the best advice out there for you so what you have to do is: listen clearly, decide carefully what you should listen and what you should not and then after you’ve acted your decision, do not regret.
Do not ever listen and agree too eagerly and do not ever listen and reject too hastily. Look both ways. Listen to both ways. Decide which is the better one. Take it, or Leave it.
I agree. Especially to the statement “do not regret”. I think advices may be based on the adviser’s personal experience – which I think it’s not wrong or right. It’s just personal perspective. True, sometimes disregard of how much we dislike somebody, there may be some truth in their advice, as much as how misleading an advice may be, coming from somebody we usually talk to~ Love this post <3